After a phone conversation with PU ID 17 I realized the mistake I made. She kept telling me things about herself that showed how insecure she was: guys hitting on her, girl raped in her town and other bad experiences.
The trick in rapport is to vibe with the girl and even though the conversation was ok I could’ve done more. I should’ve told a story that hit the “protector of loved ones” point.
In pickup, if a girl tells you a story about her friend getting raped, don’t talk about a beach party <btw: I didn’t do this>. Try something on a similar note like: “When my friend was slapped by this bouncer, I called my friends and …”
