Last summer I started logging all my approaches in a spreadsheet.
After 2010 was over, I checked the spreadsheet to get answers to some of my questions.
Mainly, I wanted to find out how many days I should call until I delete her number.
Some notes before you read the rest of the post:
- most of my approaches were day game (around 80-90%)
- the duration of most of my sets were 5 minutes (I’m usually in a hurry during the day and don’t go out to pick up women)
- the statistics apply to my style of game (if you want to find out how I approach join my mailing list by entering your email on the “Free Training” on the right)
- I only approached girls “cute and above” (no fatties, no strange psychotic girls)
Here’s what I discovered while crunching the data:
- from a total of 250 phone numbers (80-90% of which are day game number closes)
- end results were: 63 dates (I got a date with one in four girls I number closed) and 32 lays (half of the girls I dated ended with a lay)
I attribute at least 5 of my LMRs that didn’t finalized into a lay due to my bad boy strategy (lack of comfort, intense sexual presence) with which I quickly got the girl home, I got LMR and her ASD kicked in the day after. Also, some girls I discarded on the first date because I didn’t like them.
Statistics regarding how many days pass by until I got the date:
- instant dates (+ same day lays): 12
- dates on second day (a date the day after the number close): 15
- dates on 3rd day: 4
- dates on 4th day: 6
- dates on 5th day: 7
- dates on 6th day: 5
- dates on the second week: 11
- dates on 3rd week: 1
- girl that took more than 2 weeks: 2
* this is from the point I got her number, in some cases I called the very next day, in others I didn’t; statistically it didn’t matter, if I didn’t get the date on the second week I almost never got it after
What’s my conclusion while looking at these numbers? If I can’t get the girl on the second week (assuming I have a free schedule) …. I shouldn’t bother!
* of course, there are exceptions, mainly that the girl is away on weekends (or during the week) or that I am busy. I pursued only 2 girls successfully for more than 2 weeks (and yes, it was worth it) but if she’s not *amazing*, it’s a no no.
I got these results using my bad boy strategy in which I also tried to get the date as quickly as possible. My next project is to try a laid back approach (calling less and leaving a lot of days in between) to see if I improve my results.
