Badboy framing
I had a day 2 with with an HB9.5 in a park near my place with a bottle of wine and a candle. While chatting with her she mentioned about her ex: a badboy with lots of problems (think drugs and fights) that she was attracted to but had a lot of problems with. Using hot reads I discretely found more about the kind of man she wants. She is very attracted to the bad boy style, she wants a guy that’s able to protect her, that’s aggressive and who knows what he wants. She was attracted to his defects (overly aggressive) as well as his qualities. I don’t think she wanted to suck me into her frame as I was pretty good at obfuscating my inquiries.
The result?
Total reframe!!! I started telling her about my childhood fights, my experiences in handling dangerous situations and I started my don’t give a shit act. I had a total change of personality, voice, gestures, everyhing! She rationalized it as due to me remembering my childhood experiences.
Then a miracle happened! She shifted her perspective entirely!!! She initiated kino, started sexual inuendo and we vibed.
So here’s an advanced technique on recovering when you and your target have personality incompatibilities:
- dig deep for her attraction switches (what exactly does she need in a man?, what kind of men makes her go wild?)
- related to her by starting a story about your childhood where you were the guy with those exact qualities
- while telling the story look as if you’re reliving those moments and start acting as those qualities are yours even now
- end the story but keep the personality (you can anchor this moment and use it later with her)
Sarging presarged girls
In the last few months I was actively playing the field and started hitting on presarged girls. Here are some notes from over 20 such occasions in street game:
- if she didn’t give you her number before and she remembers that you probably won’t get it the second time either
- if you had her number but she flaked / she didn’t answer the calls you’ll probably get her number again but try to get into comfort on the street or it’ll all happen from the beginning
- get another contact info from her (facebook) so she can have a look into your personality before you chat (or at least get her messenger so you can ask her about an opining on a movie with you <DHV movie>)
- you can hit on her girlfriend, she lost her chance and if you make an impression you’ll create a jealousy plotline (basically she’s losing you to her friend when she could have had you before)
- if she sees you with a girl you can still close her, it’ll create drama and she won’t know if you have a girlfriend or not, that’ll make her think of you and she’ll rationalize it backwards: she thinks of you because she likes you
- you can act totally different from the first time and see if she vibes with this part of your personality
- if you have some common phrases and she said she heard them from you before act as if “that’s me” and maintain frame, she’ll accept it (as long as you’re not trying to run some routine on her)
- if you don’t remember her name or where you met her tell her you meet a lot of people (SOD) and forgot the place/name but loved liked her personality (tell her what you remember about her, she’ll love this)
