My blog lacks articles on Body Language and Vocal Tonality. That’s because I always considered myself as not having any sort of problems in these fields.
Well, not having problems with your voice and body language doesn’t mean they are your forte!
Recently I started challenging my beliefs in this regard. It seems that by not improving in this area I was just a little bit above average!
So in the last few months I started testing stuff and, using the Pareto Principle to get the most results by doing only a few changes, I discovered that some classic techniques are greatly underused even though they get you the most results.
Dominance in the club
1. Leading
In the club the quickest and simplest way to present dominance is to lead. I know you’ve all read about leading but you’re probably considering leading an optional attitude. I dare you to do club game and add leading to your permanent repertoire, you’ll see instant changes!
E.g.put your hand on the girl’s lower back when you’re moving her around the club (as if protecting her from all the drunk guys there)
This gives her the feeling that you’re dominant, alpha and know how to handle girls; it also creates comfort and attraction.
2. Being dominant and high energy
I love day game because I can really talk with the girl. I’ve travelled a lot, exchanged ideas on various subjects and I know how to take a stand without destroying the relationship. But during club game my main advantage is nullified, girls can’t hear what I’m saying.
Sometimes I can just go to the girl and shout in her ear but I found that using another textbook advice, being a bit more energetic than the girl, greatly enhances my results. High energy by itself will create the clown impression but if you can lead the girl and be high energy you’ll get a lot of compliance.
Dominance on the street
1. Showing decisiveness through your voice
Of course you can use leading here too but another great trick is to present dominance through the decisiveness in your voice. Talking flatly and outright will express the personality of a leader and, as you probably know, girls are aroused by a guy ordering them around and showing dominance.
2. The bad boy attitude
During the last two years I switched completely from going direct to a bad boy style. Now I’m not hard to get, I’m just good to fuck. Bad boy is not an attitude you can learn through techniques, you have to understand it at a deeper level. In the last video I’ve made for the Sex Systems training course I told my students to study pickup trainers like Krauser (mid thirties pickup instructor who gets same day lays and posts video proofs of his sarges) and Sleazy (who in his book, Sleazy Stories, gets the girls to masturbate him and fucks them in the bathroom).
I’m going to give you two scenarios to see the differences between being direct and being bad boy (don’t treat them as rules, just see the attitude behind):
a) When she brings up her boyfriend you don’t switch the subject, instead you say “we’ll be discreet” (aka you don’t want a relationship, you just want to fuck her)
b) Before the kiss close you’re not running some indirect routine like “how good of a kisser are you?”, what you’re doing is whispering in her ear: “You know what I’m going to do to you? (…) I’m going to take you to a dark alley and kiss you until your legs tremble”
c) You’re not the gallant type at the date, you’re putting your hand between her legs and masturbating her
As a result of this attitude girls get intoxicated by your personality. They don’t want to be your girlfriend (you’re not boyfriend material), but they feel the need to be around you, to get your approval.
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