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Sticking Points

This page is just a sample of how I dealt with my sticking points when I started out. In my latest version of the roadmap I have another way of dealing with my sticking points.

Current sticking points:

Getting LMR too often

What happens: I get LMR in most of my lays, especially when I’m bringing the girl home the same day. I may have problems with push pull in bed (because I think it’s on).

How am I feeling: I feel I’m running good game but when I’m faced with LMR I hesitate towards my actions: play it cool or connecting emotionally. I act as if it’s on but maybe I shouldn’t and let the girl ask herself that.

Commentary: Only half of these occasions end up in sex.

Solution 1: Re-test LMR techniques, one by one. WORKING 3/5

Solution 2: Run deeper comfort and emotional connection game before we arrive at my place.

Solution 3: Bring them to my place and on first sight of LMR don’t pursue sex.
Solution 4: Show them my room briefly then go somewhere else.

Horny girls finding me too insistent

What happens: When I know the girl is horny I push forward. This makes the girl think I’m just horny, not cool and an easy lay.

How am I feeling: I feel I’m able to get the lay so I continue escalating.

Commentary: Girls don’t come home with me because I’ve been insistent.

Solution 1: Play it cool: a high rush of sexual tension combined with acting like it wasn’t a big deal (common talk). WORKING 0/5

Solution 2: Don’t escalate, increase the tension.

Solution 3: Use Julian Foxx’s technique (push with the words XOR the hands).


Resolved sticking points:

  • more material (concentrate on A2 – funny stories, C1 elicit rapport)
  • anti LJBF techniques (boldness helps, also BF destroyer phone routines)
  • boldness (state intentions before loosing the set)
  • sexual kino (Kino Escalation)
  • I talk WAY TOO FAST / PACING
  • A3
  • general comfort
  • C&F
  • seeding a solid plan
  • club game
  • K-close in day 2
  • pebbles, bantering, cocky funny, busting balls
  • flakes – my biggest sticking point => try props, interesting seeds, challenge date, always leave a game half done for next date / promise something interesting
  • sexual escalation during night game