The Path to Seduction

I won’t get into details on this one but I have a good tip about reframing your interaction after you’ve fucked.

She may be worried about your behavior the next day so she asks you something around: “what are we now” or “what happens next”.

I found that the best answer is: “We liked each other, we had a great time and nobody knows what we’ve done”.

Basically you don’t give her a clear answer.

If you want to frame her as your mistress just change the tense to present: ”We like each other, we had a great time and nobody knows what we’re doing”.

I won’t recommend you screwing where you work but in case it happens, here’s a “get out of office gossip free” card.

PS: I haven’t updated this blog in a while because I’m working on my book. I’ve got to around 60%

2012 marked a new start for me.

It was the first year I didn’t concentrate on quality (or quantity) but on feminity.

I had quite a lot of girls during the years, I estimate a bit over 120 and having yet another girl didn’t fulfill me.

Yes, I approached girls and yes, I tried to get them in bed but I stopped concentrating on fucking the gorgeous girls on the street and started seeking other qualities.

In 2012 I started looking for the feminine girl, the girl that blushes when you look at her, the girl that always wears heels and loves to be chaotic, the girl that wants to please her man.

And I didn’t find many!

A lot of girls develop shields around her personalities (usually due to the breakups with their ex boyfriends) thus creating an ice between me and them. Some pickup gurus teach you how to break this ice but I found out that breaking the ice isn’t fulfilling any more.

From time to time I approach a girl where everything is natural. Yes, she has tests and yes, it’s not always easy but the connection I get by just being around her is way more fulfilling than approaching and fucking 10s.

In 2013 I plan on leaving the quantity and the quality game. I want to concentrate strictly on the feminine girls.

2012 results

Here are my results for 2012:

• #cl: 215 (2010: 250)
• fcl: 14 (2010: 32)

That means I fucked 6.5% of the girls I’ve number closed. (in 2010 I had 12.8%)

Why this lower number?

Mostly because I wasn’t interested in getting more notches.

The results for 2011 were about the same as in 2010, I didn’t do a full year statistic but I had 80 #cl and 10 lays in the first 4 months.

2010 was about the quantity, 2011 was about the quality and 2012 was about the feminity.

2013 and what’s next

In 2013 I’ll get my numbers even lower. I’m not interested in getting another notch, I’d rather have a fun date with a feminine girl.

So check out my future posts, some interesting stories will be coming!

This is the second article from a series of short tips that will follow. You can find the first article here.

How to open mother-daughter sets

When using direct openers I find that the best way to open mother daughter sets is to open the mum telling her that her daughter is <COMPLIMENT> and that I want to make acquaintance. The mother receives the compliment, I make acquaintance with the daughter and continue gaming the daughter.

How to convert a FB to a Friends with benefits or LTR

I find that the best way to do the conversion is to invite the girl at my place to cook together. Cooking is a relationship activity and it’s easy to convert the girl to a higher status in your harem.

Keeping her out of the LTR frame

“I don’t consider I’m in a relationship after I fucked the girl or 2 months after I’ve met her. I need to know her at her best and at her worst and we need to have a lot of common experiences before I consider her my girlfriend.” Rephrase it to suit your personality.

Best hour to call her

Statistically speaking: 21:30. To be sure she’s at home, doing nothing you can check that she’s online on Facebook

The Qualifying Chain

A fast way to get into common subjects (especially when the girl is in a hurry) is The Qualifying Chain. Basically you chain qualifying questions (/assumptions) together until you hit a common subject: You look like the kind of girl that writes poetry .. or does something creative! (… No …) Haha, but do you know how to dance?

Cool reading material

46 Women Who Were Not My Wife

Gaming, A TEAM sport

My Personal PUA Journey (by Entropy)

My boy lollipop with never leave me, because it would grieve me <– I’m at the same point in game as Krauser is: after you pass 100 notches you stop caring about the quantity *and* quality of women you’re fucking and you start looking for a very specific kind of woman: the extremely feminine girl.

Spread the message, girls should read and apply advice from this blog :)

“Too much of a good thing is a bad thing!”

I started learning seduction using Mystery Method and its 3 attraction switches: leader of men, protector of loved ones and preselected by women. I’ve always inserted them in the stories, at first in a very uncalibrated way and then, just by being myself.

Now I don’t really think about what I do, I just tell stories about who I am, what I’ve done … and the stories portray me as I truly am. 

I have stories when I was leading a scouts team (leader of men), protecting my girlfriend when some drunk tried to hit on her (protector of loved ones), doing close contact sports (same) and dancing, having a lot of friends and partying like hell (preselection). Though I think I’m going after the introvert girls now, appreciating more emotional depthness…

Now, I’m a very confident guy. I know what I want, I know what I’m willing to do to get it and I’m doing it.

This is shown through my personality, my stories and my leadership roles in life.

Girls noticed this and started telling me. I interpreted this as an attraction switch and usually continued by telling them confidence stories.

… and then it dawned on me!

Once the girl notices that you are confident, leave the confidence material out!

You’ve already got that covered. Skip all your confidence stories and concentrate your conversation on other parts. If you keep going with the confidence you’re just restating what she already knows, and theres no point in doing this.

This year I tried concentrating on quality instead of quantity. Do you think it worked?

I let my FBs go and tried picking up only girls that I really enjoyed, the feminine introvert types (seems me and Krauser enjoy the same types of girls).  After about a month I only got 1 lay.

I tried keeping this for 2 months but it seems that finding a specific type of girl is like trying to find a needle in a haystack.

So I went for another strategy: quality from quantity.

Results?

Lays after lays of mostly 8s and some 9s, debauchery in clubs and getting kiss closes and instant dates weekly.

That’s more like it, even though the really high quality is still to be found.

Since I was more into quality now I was feeling totally detached from the outcome in clubs.

Results?

My clubbing game went through the roof!!

I got laid a second time in the town’s best club (this is my 6th lay in a club), tried to lay the girl’s sister (didn’t work though), drank some body shots and parties like there’s no tomorrow!

Still, the outcome detachment affected my day game: I was calling girls when I wanted them because … well, because I wanted them (even though I knew that calling them in that moment would be unproductive). Sometimes it worked, mostly it didn’t. 

The I don’t really care game has its disadvantages. 

Now I’m trying something else, a new kind of game that seems to solve my quality problem.

(to be continued)

I f**ked another russian. She was in my bed conjugating in Romanian:

Me: “I am fucking you”

Her: “You are fucking me”

Me: “He is fucking you”

…

Loved it!

Of course she forgot something at my place … dam’ the girls’ tactics to come again.

PS: Interesting note today .. I opened a girl I fucked 2 years ago and couldn’t remember her. This is the second time it’s happening.

I’ve never learned seduction to get hundreds of women in my bed, that was never my intention.

I didn’t even learn it to get that *one* girl as my girlfriend, no …

I’ve learned it from frustrations that I had during my life:

• in 9th grade I liked a girl and started going out with her (as friends) until a bad boy (friend of mine) came and kissed her
• no real relationship during high school (a long term “open” one and a fling with a bisexual girl … and that’s all)
• in the first year at university I had a girlfriend and she told me whe don’t have anything to talk about

Then I hit the jackpot.

I learned and practiced, got results, learned some more, etc etc.

I’ve hit on thousands and thousands of women, dated hundrets and fucked  around 80-90.

And then 2012 came.

I’ve got bored on the quantity (even when all of them were at least *cute* in my books).

I’ve got bored even on *quality* as I perceived it in the last years.

I started concentrating on *natural* beauties, girls that smile openly, that don’t try to play hard to get in a fake, club-like manner and that know how to appreciate a man when he spends time with them.

But I still needed the quantity! So I’ve made a choice.

I’ll only date *natural* and beautiful women (I won’t spend any more of my time trying to fuck *cute* girls).

Instead, I’m going to try a lot of extreme things with the cute ones.

I’ve got the taste of extremes in 2010 when I had the first Same Day Threesome (meeting 2 girls on the street during day game and fucking them the same day).

Then I did the first Door Game sarge in the whole worldworld!

From that moment I had a lot of similar experiences; I’ve had same night lays inside the clubs, a 15 minutes SDL and other stuff).

Yesterday, I approached a 4 set in the mall and the target rejected me from the start (the other girls didn’t notice this). Later, I saw the girl exiting a cafe so I left my shopping bag with a friend, I went inside and approached the group. Got the number of one of the target’s girl friends and I think I’ll revenge fuck her first and then meet my target and revenge fuck the target too )

2 days ago I see a gorgeous girl in a business suit as a suggested friend on Facebook. I don’t normally do fb game but I couldn’t abstain from her. I add her and we have a 20 minutes conversation in which I tell her I’ll take her out sometimes. I don’t ask for her number.

Instead, I know where she works so I get her office number from their website.

Then I send her a message during work hours and ask her how’s at work. After she responds I call her and continue the conversation.

She loves the fact that I was able to get her number and gave me her personal phone.

Date comming soon

I’m writing this as it seems my interest in game switched from quantity and quality to having unique experiences. I love a cold approach as much as the next guy but I seem to enjoy the adventure and the originality more.

“Your goal in life is to arrive at the superior level, to grow. But you can’t grow if you have luggage. The luggage keeps you down. It doesn’t let you rise to the sky. Leave your regrets down and do exactly what you feel like doing, that’s the way to grow to the next level”.

If the girl cheated her boyfriend with you this is a great frame to put her in.

When you’re dining with your colleagues and everybody is salivating (not for their food).

Go to her and: “All my colleagues are looking at you and I came to see why!”.

You’re implying you didn’t notice how attractive she was and that you’re not salivating after her. Get her number and then return to your colleagues and salivate for your food.